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spice it up!!!

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Janbo25 · 03/08/2005 15:12

anyone got any ideas on how to spice up sex life after having ds???

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oliveoil · 03/08/2005 15:14

no

bundle · 03/08/2005 15:14

no

Janbo25 · 03/08/2005 15:14

thanks lol

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Janbo25 · 03/08/2005 15:41

bump

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compo · 03/08/2005 15:42

romantic candle lit dinner for 2 to get you in the mood? sex toys? saucy underwear? what have you tried so far?

moondog · 03/08/2005 15:43

Another no from me.......

Lonelymum · 03/08/2005 15:44

Gosh, just doing it at all is good going for me!

Lonelymum · 03/08/2005 15:44

Gosh, just doing it at all is good going for me!

Janbo25 · 03/08/2005 15:44

dh just bought some sex toys so will give them a try, sex justs seems different now after having ds

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Janbo25 · 03/08/2005 15:45

i don't want to lose the sex life we had

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oliveoil · 03/08/2005 15:46

Am I the only one that thinks this sort of stuff is private? I always cringe at these sorts of threads.

Janbo25 · 03/08/2005 15:47

why we all do it sharing ideas is good isn't it?

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compo · 03/08/2005 15:47

why does it seem different?

moondog · 03/08/2005 15:48

Ooooh me too oliveoil. Would rather....eat a fishfinger than go into the ins and outs of it all (so to speak.)
Lonelymum's pace seems to have quickened though,judging by her double postings.

Janbo25 · 03/08/2005 15:48

having to find time instead of as and when

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oliveoil · 03/08/2005 15:49

Just think it is private and shouldn't be discussed. So ner .

Janbo25 · 03/08/2005 15:51

ooooh sorry miss prude! lol i just think the more you chat about it the more ideas you'll get and why be embarrassed?

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oliveoil · 03/08/2005 15:52

Not embarassed or a prude just think it's a bit cringe to discuss.

Anyway, back to my thrilling thread about slow cookers...

charliecat · 03/08/2005 15:53

I think going to bed at the same as dp time would improve my sex life.

Janbo25 · 03/08/2005 15:54

well it probably is cringe compared to slow cookers, sorry if its offended you but i like to share ideas so if anyone can help?

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moondog · 03/08/2005 15:54

Slow cookin'!!!!
Awwwwwwwraaaaight!!!!!!
Now you're talking bayBEEEEEEE!

Whooooohhh!

compo · 03/08/2005 15:55

well like I said have a romantic meal after the kids are in bed, get an early night, use candles, new undies etc

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charliecat · 03/08/2005 15:55

Moondog dont get too carried away

Janbo25 · 03/08/2005 15:56

yes i think we will have to make a effort more often its our wedding anniversary soon so that should be good

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Lizzylou · 03/08/2005 15:56

Go away for the night (if you can get a babysitter?)...........
We'd just got "back on track" and now I am pg again... and I am even more tired now!

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