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spice it up!!!

(61 Posts)
Janbo25 Wed 03-Aug-05 15:12:35

anyone got any ideas on how to spice up sex life after having ds???

oliveoil Wed 03-Aug-05 15:14:08

no

bundle Wed 03-Aug-05 15:14:23

no

Janbo25 Wed 03-Aug-05 15:14:45

thanks lol

Janbo25 Wed 03-Aug-05 15:41:37

bump

compo Wed 03-Aug-05 15:42:42

romantic candle lit dinner for 2 to get you in the mood? sex toys? saucy underwear? what have you tried so far?

moondog Wed 03-Aug-05 15:43:02

Another no from me.......


Lonelymum Wed 03-Aug-05 15:44:16

Gosh, just doing it at all is good going for me!

Lonelymum Wed 03-Aug-05 15:44:17

Gosh, just doing it at all is good going for me!

Janbo25 Wed 03-Aug-05 15:44:34

dh just bought some sex toys so will give them a try, sex justs seems different now after having ds

Janbo25 Wed 03-Aug-05 15:45:01

i don't want to lose the sex life we had

oliveoil Wed 03-Aug-05 15:46:16

Am I the only one that thinks this sort of stuff is private? I always cringe at these sorts of threads.

Janbo25 Wed 03-Aug-05 15:47:12

why we all do it sharing ideas is good isn't it?

compo Wed 03-Aug-05 15:47:37

why does it seem different?

moondog Wed 03-Aug-05 15:48:14

Ooooh me too oliveoil. Would rather....eat a fishfinger than go into the ins and outs of it all (so to speak.)
Lonelymum's pace seems to have quickened though,judging by her double postings.

Janbo25 Wed 03-Aug-05 15:48:17

having to find time instead of as and when

oliveoil Wed 03-Aug-05 15:49:42

Just think it is private and shouldn't be discussed. So ner .

Janbo25 Wed 03-Aug-05 15:51:32

ooooh sorry miss prude! lol i just think the more you chat about it the more ideas you'll get and why be embarrassed?

oliveoil Wed 03-Aug-05 15:52:44

Not embarassed or a prude just think it's a bit cringe to discuss.

Anyway, back to my thrilling thread about slow cookers...

charliecat Wed 03-Aug-05 15:53:49

I think going to bed at the same as dp time would improve my sex life.

Janbo25 Wed 03-Aug-05 15:54:04

well it probably is cringe compared to slow cookers, sorry if its offended you but i like to share ideas so if anyone can help?

moondog Wed 03-Aug-05 15:54:05

Slow cookin'!!!!
Awwwwwwwraaaaight!!!!!!
Now you're talking bayBEEEEEEE!

Whooooohhh!

compo Wed 03-Aug-05 15:55:01

well like I said have a romantic meal after the kids are in bed, get an early night, use candles, new undies etc

charliecat Wed 03-Aug-05 15:55:26

Moondog dont get too carried away

Janbo25 Wed 03-Aug-05 15:56:06

yes i think we will have to make a effort more often its our wedding anniversary soon so that should be good

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