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Has anyone ever gone to a swingers club or party before?

(87 Posts)
AfricoAngel Wed 27-Jul-05 12:13:57

Just curious....

charliecat Wed 27-Jul-05 12:16:10

No, but im convinced my neighbours do

spidermama Wed 27-Jul-05 12:17:07

God NO I'm such a prude.

My parents did wife swapping back in the 70's. Dad's now married to the woman and my mum lives alone.

anchovies Wed 27-Jul-05 12:17:30

No but my MIL and FIL hold them at their house regularly. Not my cup of tea at all.

Lizzylou Wed 27-Jul-05 12:18:07

Wow!!!

charliecat Wed 27-Jul-05 12:18:39

A woman I worked with said in the 70s they used to throw the car keys in a pile and you would pick a set and go off with whoever the car keys were...[vomit emotion]

BareFootAngel Wed 27-Jul-05 12:23:35

NO! no no no no ive never swapped anything .i take my unwanted stuff to the charity shop and then buy new!!eeeeeeeeeeeekkkkkkkkkk yukky you would also be at the party with there wifes and oh yuk no you could see where they had been if you kwim

LittleMissNaughty Wed 27-Jul-05 12:25:48

I would have to agree with everyone else, the thought of it makes me sick!

Each to their own I suppose. Actually, in this case, it is each to everyone.

AfricoAngel Wed 27-Jul-05 12:44:44

Lol, I don't understand how someone can watch while some bitch has sex with their partner! The reason I asked was I saw this documentary a few weeks back and I thought 'hmm, wonder if any mumsnetters do that?!?!'

tiredemma Wed 27-Jul-05 12:52:23

I saw the same documentary i think africo, was it the one where a couple had a huge party every month in thier house, next morning bodies everywhere?

ive never been to one, wouldnt have the guts.

Hausfrau Wed 27-Jul-05 12:53:46

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ggglimpopo Wed 27-Jul-05 12:54:30

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ggglimpopo Wed 27-Jul-05 13:13:14

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munz Wed 27-Jul-05 13:14:21

uurghhh god no I ahte the thought of another womans hands on my DH, and he's never let me go off with another man (not that I would anyways). definatly not my cup of tea.

handlemecarefully Wed 27-Jul-05 13:20:43

eh gads! NO!!!!!

nutcracker Wed 27-Jul-05 13:20:45

Nope never have and wouldn't either.

munz Wed 27-Jul-05 13:24:53

(should read he'd not he's cos I havent' tried -oh dig a hole!)

AfricoAngel Wed 27-Jul-05 13:51:51

yes tiredmama, where the teenage kids were helping with the big roast pig in the living room too?

expatinscotland Wed 27-Jul-05 13:52:24

Good gawd, Africo, you sure are full of the nosey questions today.

Mytwopenceworth Wed 27-Jul-05 14:06:38

i could never go to a swingers party - id be too worried that noone would pick me!!

marthamoo Wed 27-Jul-05 14:08:23

Apparently if you have pampas grass growing in your garden it signifies swingingdom (I probably read that on MN). I do not have pampas grass growing in my garden.

marthamoo Wed 27-Jul-05 14:09:44

Swingerdom? Swinginess? Swingability?

I'm as bored as hunker.

expatinscotland Wed 27-Jul-05 14:10:27

Anyone ever seen the film 'Swingers'. It's great, btw, but it's about swing dancing.

theonlyone Wed 27-Jul-05 14:41:48

am i the only one that has ! it was a club with an ex-bf. The idea excited me, but when we got there it didn't, I need to get to know someone to find them attractive and do anything . We went and had a sauna alone together and then went off and found somewhere quiet and private definitely no swinging for us. Thinking back it was quite funny. I'm not quite so wild now and it doesn't interest me at all.

handlemecarefully Wed 27-Jul-05 15:33:06

you wierdy

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