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How far would you or have you gone on a 1st date?

(26 Posts)
AnnaInManchester Tue 05-Jul-05 20:33:39


HappyHuggy Tue 05-Jul-05 20:38:01

I shagged my hubby on our first date but then i was 16 and a bit of a slapper! but i married him so i must have been good

BethAndHerBrood Tue 05-Jul-05 20:42:00

Does a one night stand count as a first date??

morningpaper Tue 05-Jul-05 20:43:11

I also shagged DP on our first date

Actually it wasn't even a date just the first day we'd met together

Blossomhill Tue 05-Jul-05 20:44:24

Kiss and hold hands.

HappyHuggy Tue 05-Jul-05 20:45:25

he was very polite though and didnt try and shag me straight out. he said "would you like to go somewhere more quite" and he was a virgin too - bless him


AnnaInManchester Tue 05-Jul-05 20:50:43

Hark at all u slappers!!!

AnnaInManchester Tue 05-Jul-05 20:51:03

Just kidding by the way before anyone bites me!!!

gigglinggoblin Tue 05-Jul-05 20:52:26

is there something you would like to share with us anna? you are starting some very interesting threads tonight!

expatinscotland Tue 05-Jul-05 20:53:04

Who said anything about a date? In the past I've been known to skip the date and go right for the shag .

AnnaInManchester Tue 05-Jul-05 20:53:16

Lol nooo, just got so addicted to mumsnet, I feel confident to post my own posts now!

AnnaInManchester Tue 05-Jul-05 20:54:25

I'm just enthralled about other ppl's antics tbh, to know i'm not alone!

Heathcliffscathy Tue 05-Jul-05 20:54:29

i've had two fabulous one night stands. and some other not so fabulous ones....

AnnaInManchester Tue 05-Jul-05 20:56:07

one guy his dick was like a baby carrot, I really felt nothing and it kept coming out. I might as well as had a baby carrot up me!

AnnaInManchester Tue 05-Jul-05 20:56:35

but it wasn't the first date - the 2nd lol

happymerryberries Tue 05-Jul-05 20:57:42

all the way with dh! and 18 years later, we are still together!

Heathcliffscathy Tue 05-Jul-05 20:58:56

conversely i waited a year and six weeks before shagging dh!

Tortington Tue 05-Jul-05 21:01:10

sex mad manc nothin worse!

it took 6 months for my dh to get some

Mum2girls Tue 05-Jul-05 21:03:48

A sharp slap on the back and firm handshake is all they get from me...

Bugsy2 Wed 06-Jul-05 10:16:59

Depends entirely on circs. Have had one night stands but if I want a "relationship" of some description with someone, then I like to get to know them a bit before sleeping with them. Find it makes the "doing it" more exciting and enjoyable.

handlemecarefully Wed 06-Jul-05 10:19:24

Yes, I've done the full thing on a first date.

handlemecarefully Wed 06-Jul-05 10:20:45

There once was the time that if they bought me a really nice dinner I felt oliged to!

Now I'm older and wiser, so if newly single and dateing I wouldn't bother until I felt absolutely ready (which for me would be unlikely to be the first date)

helsy Wed 06-Jul-05 10:22:48


kama Wed 06-Jul-05 10:24:38

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Lizzylou Wed 06-Jul-05 10:25:49

I slept with DH after our first meeting 9 years ago....
We then had a first date 1 week later!
Have had other, less satisfactory encounters though

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