Well, I went on my date last night. After trying on all of my wardrobe I wore a white kaftan and black trousers.
He was on time and looked very smart in a shirt and smart jeans! He took me to a bar and insisted he pay for all the drinks so I had a barcadi and coke (forgetting it might interfere with my medication - ooops!) and then cola afterwards. The conversation flowed and we had many laughs, but he was very forward with the kisses and sticking his tongue down my throat - euuurgh! Just before the date ended conversation turned to sex and he was asking if I liked it and did I prefer a man performing oral and receiving it which really put me off, so i'm not sure if I will be seeing him again!
I'm just so sick of guys wanting sex!!! I know it comes naturally in a relationship but it should come with time! I wasn't particularly dressed procatively neither - just dressy cotton black trousers and a white indian style kaftan!
Annainmanchester - i have been on dates like this and they ALL turn out to be freaks! lol!!! he sounds really full on and creepy and i would avoid him like the plague! he should have been polite and friendly and a little flirty maybe, but that sort of talk should certainly wait a while - he sounds like he's just trying to get his little wicked way! eeeuuuggghhh!!!!! go with your gut instinct - always!! if he seemed like a creepy sex perv then he probably is!! some men are such shallow pigs! - sorry bit of a rant
Yes I think he sounds a bit weird - too keen, too quickly usually means a nutter or only after one thing!
I met a few like this and had given up entirely really but put myself on a dating site for some reason (no idea why because I was so disillusioned with the whole thing!) and met a really lovely man who was too shy to even kiss me for ages!! We've been together 9 months now and he's the best thing that's ever happened to me (apart from my dds).
arrgghhh - i would run a mile , as i remember years ago, this lad used to fancy me and was asking me for a date and he never gave up till i said yes... straight away he said "oh i love alot of sex" i just cringed there and then and never saw him again as i avoided him..!
AIM, I went on loads of internet dates last year and the majority of the guys I met, had a very specific agenda!!!! Two of them got their knobs out in public bars - they were so desperate!!
However, don't lose heart as there are some decent men out there.