I can't believe I've started this thread. I have thought about it for so long and still don't know exactly what to write, but here goes....
I have 2 sons, DS1 who is 4 and DS2 who is 7 weeks. DS1 is very sociable and loves to play but it gets to the point where he can play quite roughly if he gets too excited. The problem is my mums DP and the things he says to/about DS1. She has been with him for just over a year and has hardly made any effort to get to know us (he's not the visiting type) although mum has taken DS1 to his house quite a lot. Just like most men in our family, he plays with DS1 and gets him over excited, he makes quite a bit of noise and then mums DP will tell him to 'shut up or I'll pull your head off' He gets him making noise in the first place ffs.
Yesterday was my nieces christening and at the party afterwards, we had just stepped foot in the hall and mums DP said, in a loud voice 'you should have called him demon, not (DS1's name)' it was awful, and put DH and I in a real bad mood. I have also heard him telling DS1 that he is evil and a terror and although he says these things in jest, it's really upsetting me. I don't think he should be saying things like this to my 4 year old.
Also at the party mums neighbour asked when DS1 starts school, I told him in September and immediately he said 'I bet you get hauled in a few times to see the headmaster about him' FGS give him chance to start school!
I need to speak to mum about her DP's behaviour towards DS1 but I don't know what to say. I don't want to jepordise our relationship with her. I've already mentioned it to her once and she told him to watch what he says to DS1 as he repeats, but he has carried on doing it. DH wants him to have nothing more to do with our DS's.
Why can't they leave him alone???
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Why can't they leave my boy alone?
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Maddison · 04/07/2005 08:47
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