Last Resort - Good Idea or Barking Mad?

[talie]

Found out my dh (separated) is looking at personal ads! So as a last resort thought I would get him interested in me again by being one of those ads and contacting him via e-mail (anon)?

Anyone think I can get him to fall in love with me again or do you think I'm playing with fire?

Advice please.

[WideWebWitch]

Barking mad. Why can't you just tell him you want him back?

[talie]

He's told me he doesn't love me any more, but did come back once and I messed it all up!

[Fimbo]

If he said he doesn't love you anymore, how is he going to feel about you deceiving him? How do you know he is looking at personal ads anyway?

[norash]

Are you winding people up or is this for real?

[Fimbo]

My thoughts as well Norash!

[norash]

Talie, I don't mean to sound mean but I am going to be blantantly honest. Was going to say sorry if I offend, but no I'm not really.

If it were someone else that you probably did not know saying the same thing you said in your initial post. The reaction would probably be

" How stupid can people be, can't they get it through their heads that the other person does not want them."

In short 'MOVE ON'. He seems to have, moved on.

[norash]

This was a wind up then!

Supris! Suprise!

[talie]

Okay get the message - I'm mad!

Just p'd off that he's already looking one week after being apart (and that's just what I know about)!!

Even more p'd off that he's left me with 2 little uns (and only sees them out of duty) - his dating profile says he's okay about dating women with children, when he cant be a good dad to his own!! He's even used a photo of him with one of his dds!

Maybe it's a revenge thing?

[norash]

Remind me again Talie, why do you want this guy back?

[outofmydeppth]

Talie, I think you're playing with fire and sorry, but it sounds like you're well-rid. I would do it as a revenge thing, if anything (but's that's just the kinda gal I am!).