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Last Resort - Good Idea or Barking Mad?

(11 Posts)
talie Wed 29-Jun-05 13:24:07

Found out my dh (separated) is looking at personal ads! So as a last resort thought I would get him interested in me again by being one of those ads and contacting him via e-mail (anon)?

Anyone think I can get him to fall in love with me again or do you think I'm playing with fire?

Advice please.

WideWebWitch Wed 29-Jun-05 13:25:48

Barking mad. Why can't you just tell him you want him back?

talie Wed 29-Jun-05 13:29:07

He's told me he doesn't love me any more, but did come back once and I messed it all up!

Fimbo Wed 29-Jun-05 13:31:56

If he said he doesn't love you anymore, how is he going to feel about you deceiving him? How do you know he is looking at personal ads anyway?

norash Wed 29-Jun-05 13:33:46

Are you winding people up or is this for real?

Fimbo Wed 29-Jun-05 13:36:40

My thoughts as well Norash!

norash Wed 29-Jun-05 13:38:57

Talie, I don't mean to sound mean but I am going to be blantantly honest. Was going to say sorry if I offend, but no I'm not really.

If it were someone else that you probably did not know saying the same thing you said in your initial post. The reaction would probably be

" How stupid can people be, can't they get it through their heads that the other person does not want them."

In short 'MOVE ON'. He seems to have, moved on.

norash Wed 29-Jun-05 16:37:13

This was a wind up then!

Supris! Suprise!

talie Wed 29-Jun-05 16:41:04

Okay get the message - I'm mad!

Just p'd off that he's already looking one week after being apart (and that's just what I know about)!!

Even more p'd off that he's left me with 2 little uns (and only sees them out of duty) - his dating profile says he's okay about dating women with children, when he cant be a good dad to his own!! He's even used a photo of him with one of his dds!

Maybe it's a revenge thing?

norash Wed 29-Jun-05 17:15:12

Remind me again Talie, why do you want this guy back?

outofmydeppth Wed 29-Jun-05 17:18:57

Talie, I think you're playing with fire and sorry, but it sounds like you're well-rid. I would do it as a revenge thing, if anything (but's that's just the kinda gal I am!).

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