is it wierd that i dont miss sex?

[misdee]

havent had any for over 6months for pretty obvious reasons. but i dont miss it. at all. i feel like it should feel wrong, but at the same i am really not bothered.

was gonna change my name for this but cant be bothered.

[jessicasmummy]

im with ya misdee - since falling pg again, i dont care! This is from a sex-mad girlie!

I think i have had sex about 5 times in 6 months and i dont miss it in the slightest!!!

You're not weird or strange, and dont let anyone tell you otherwise!

[misdee]

just remembering all those post by a certain plant that says if u dont have sex you're weird.

tsk!!

[jessicasmummy]

stupid cow! not wierd at all.... i prefer cuddles me!

[starlover]

hmm well then i am weird!
seem to have lost all y libido since having ds...
at least you 2 have an excuse!

[lunachic]

who has the time !

[misdee]

lol.

[compo]

don't think it's wierd at all as I much prefer a bit of do-it-yourself, or don't you bother with that even? (you don't have to answer that btw)

[jessicasmummy]

PMSL! cuddles and sleep!!! Best way forward!

[misdee]

i'm just not interesdted in anything like that. to me its an extra lol.

[noddyholder]

was in the same situation when on dialysis and even dp went off it I think it was the stress.The desire will come back when things settle down for you It is not everything

[tamula]

Misdee, I'm with ya, i'm not even remotely in the mood (ever) Dp's badgering doesnt help none either.

But I think my sex drive has waned due to feeling like a strecth marked, fatso with bad hair days every day...

[misdee]

even dh isnt bothered. but then oner of his meds is similar to a female hormone and may mean 'loss of sex drive and enlargement in breast tissue'

[starlover]

misdee... he'll be able to b/f dd3 then!

[Fio2]

a certain plant

fgs misdee stop worrying about crap!

[lunachic]

lol compo
i resorted to a little diy to bring dd labour on (right on time ) know someone who is pg and having a sweep im too to tell her the alternative

[compo]

lol lunachic - much more pleasurable than a sweep!!

[misdee]

lol starlover, i did ask him if he could last week.

[starlover]

let me guess... he turned you down on that one?

[misdee]

he said dd3 would starve. plus she has teeth and she would no doubt bite him.

[starlover]

oh well. perhaps she could just use him for a dummy!
men are such wusses!

[stitch]

well lets see misdee, yo have a little baby, you are breastfeeding. your dh is due to have a heart transplant, once he is well enough too...
i think you have to much stress n your live to want sex. so not surprising that you are not missing it.

[katierocket]

I think stitch sums it up perfectly! you must be so tired misdee, totally normally to not be bothered about sex

[misdee]

innit stitch. was just thinking aloud really. dh will be if eh finds out i posted this lol.

[Kelly1978]

I think the less you have sex the more u don't miss it. Bfeeding causes loss of sex drive too. I find it quite hard to make the effort atm.

[stitch]

kelly, your breastfeeding twins!

i cant be bothered to make the effort anymore either. isnt it sad...