Dp and I have been together for 6 years. We have had our problems and split for a month earlier this year. We got back together mainly because he wanted to be close to dd and couldnt afford to live on his own - His terms! I was happy to accept as I still loved him.
Anyway, after a great few months we decided to try for dc2. It happened instantly to our surprise.
Now Im 30 weeks pg with a 17mo dd. I dont think I love him anymore and dont really speak to him.
He doesnt understand how hard this pregnancy has been for me and I am really struggling. Having said that, he was away this week with work for a few nights and I loved it!!
Should I tell him its over and ask him to leave? Should I wait until Ive had dc2? I dont want him at the birth this time and tbh dont want him to know that im in labour so that he doenst tell anyone.
Any advise welcome. Sorry its long and boring.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
WWYD - Pg with dc2, no longer in love and very unhappy...
3 replies
laurashavingababy · 12/11/2009 20:20
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.