I'll try and keep this brief.
DH and I met when I had my DD aged 11 months and was lonely living a dreadful "life" of working/sleeping nothing in between, hardly saw DD awake.
Being with him gave me the opportunity of a family life, I got pregnant with our baby and gave up work and was relatively happy, but there was never any courting between DH and I. We married and had DC3
So 7 years later I wanted another baby, we were going through a rocky patch and I talked him into (against lots of MN advice ) trying for another and I am 9 weeks pregnant.
He's being vile, swearing at me, rowing over silly things that do not matter.
Money is tight, isn't it for everyone, so we as a couple and as a family aren't doing much fun stuff togther.
So today I am going to the GP to ask for an abortion, mainly for my other childrens sake because what ever happens I will not allow them to suffer.
Should I be seeing a solicitor as well, I cannot work out if this is survivable as a relationship, we actually have very little in common aside of the children, but that is because the children absorb all the spare income that would be spent on the things we have in common if that makes sense ?
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MillyMollyMoo · 10/11/2009 09:00
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