I am really fed up. I have a DD of nearly 2. My Dh is so lazy and it is driving me mad! He works from home and doesn't do very much at all tbh. He gets up late, goes for a swim and then sits in front of tv from about 5pm. I meanwhile do everything else. All childcare, housework, cooking, shopping, washing etc etc. if I complain he tells me to get a cleaner, nanny etc, but we cannot afford that so would be throwing money away when if he just helped me out a bit things would be fine. I have tried talking to him and he just tells me I am depressed. I have tried emailing him and he still doesn't respond. I am really at the end of my tether. I feel so resentful that I do everything while he is so lazy. I can manage with doing it and would be fine if he was busy all day, its just I feel really annoyed that he just lets me get on with everything without lifting a finger. The odd occasion he has got up in the morning with DD and I have had a lie in (til 9am - he gets up 10am earliest every other day) he has to go back to bed for a few hours because he is so tired.
I have had enough and am so close to leaving because of it. I love him but I just cannot stay with a man I have no respect for. And surely he has no respect for me just expecting me to do everything for him. Is there anything I can do to shake him into action or is he just not going to change? We have been married 3 years and he has always been the same. Didn't live together before marriage mores the pity
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I could do with some advice........
sdg · 17/06/2005 14:13
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