It is our 9 year anniversary today (married 2) and the past few weeks have been a rocky bad patch, culminating in us rowing on Monday saying that we would not be together if we didn't have children .
But last night we had a good talk and really cleared the air and have decided to give each other a joint kick up the arse to try and get back to how we were.
So we are going to go out EVERY week somewhere just the two of us. Talk instead of reading the papers on separate sofas at night. Be kind (I know I have been very short and abrupt of late, feel mean about that).
And just generally start making an effort. Two babies in two years is a stressful thing and I don't think we have made allowances for that.
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oliveoil · 15/06/2005 13:09
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