I've only posted here once before but am a regular reader, I really need some advice, not sure where to start!
My dp and I have been together years and have always had a rocky relationship. We have 2 beautiful boys, aged 3 and 1.
Over the years, my DP has lifted his hands to me, nothing major but enough is enough. I have slowly been shutting him out and this is why he is so aggressive and verbally abuses me.
I am constantly shattered, I work 3 days per week and our youngest DS is a really bad sleeper, hence the reason I am constantly shattered. At night when he eventually goes to sleep, I just want to go to bed as I know he will be wakening again soon. y dp wants loving etc, I can't be bothered and to be honest I think the reason is, is that I don't love him anymore.
The final straw was yesterday morning when he grabbed me round the throat and threw me on to our bed in front of our sons. I ran out and was so close to going to the police. The reason he does things like this is because I won't talk to him, havetime for him etc etc and if I'm honest, I've not but I just feel we would be both happier on our own.
It scares me though, it breaks my heart to sell the house. How would I manage on my own? Could we sell and then I rent back the house? I've heard of things like that. How would my sones cope without their father, my oldest dotes on his dad.
Has anyone been through anything like this? What did you do?
I'm at work but will be able tosign back in later and read any comments. Your help would be appreciated.
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myweestars · 21/10/2009 09:17
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