Am feeling really low today and haven't a clue what to do about this situation. Over the last 10 weekends, DH has been involved with his sporting hobby for 8 of them, meaning at least 1 day away from home. (He thinks it's absolutely fine to just spend one day of the weekend at home, and the other for himself.) He is away in Australia for 3 and a half weeks over Christmas, with his work, so I'm single Mum again then. Looked at the calendar last night, he has booked himself in for his sport EVERY single weekend through November - one day at home, the other away.
He has taken half term off work and we're going away.
BUT I am SO pissed off with his attitude that he can bugger off as much as he likes at weekends, whether I want to be "single Mum" or not. This has gone on for years and years - have been to Relate God knows how many times, he doesn't listen to them and they just look at him, appalled. Right at the moment I want nothing more to do with him. Have said I want to separate in the past, but he refuses to leave which means uprooting the DC (not fair.) I can't make him leave! He, btw, thinks everything is fine! He's a great Dad, and the kids adore him. It would break their hearts to take themn away. How do assert myself and say "stop taking the piss?"
I work part time, get a quick swim twice a week and even went out with friends last week! He's supportive if I want to do things - so long as it doesn't interfere with his friggin plans. What can I do?
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Ok, practical advice - what would YOU do?
costagirl · 19/10/2009 10:07
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