Yes I know it is lunatic to expect answers on the internet but help me fill the time til tomorrow ...
Have been with bf for just over year. We are both lone p, and get on well. Mostly. He is not yet divorced, having been through a horrible break up - and is petrified of letting go enough to really get close to me. This in turn has been pssing me off and making me unsure about him. Yesterday I told him I wanted a break and only to get back together if he wanted to build a life together. I've always been clear this is what I was after, and it is - I don't want to settle for a lifetime of the odd eves, weekends. With him or anyone.
He said he needs to think about it and will let me know tomorrow. I'm dreading the 'it's not you it's me' chat. Cos if he doesn't know he wants me now how is 24 hours going to change things? Or is it just proof he's taking it on board seriously at last?
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I told him I needed committment and he has gone away to think about it
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ninah · 18/10/2009 19:41
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