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I am officially new to Mumsnet though I have enjoyed exploring the site for some time. People on here seem really helpful so I just thought I'd run a problem passed you to see if people could offer any help/advice.
I have been seeing a guy for a few months, we met in June and its going really well. Its the first relationship I have had for a while as I have a young son and wanted to devote all my spare time to him. My boyfriend is really kind and caring, and my son really likes him. What's more he is not the most confident of children and my boyfriend has really helped bring him out of himself and give him some confidence.
The problem is that my b/f is a wrestler and I am getting more and more jealous of the attention my b/f gets from other girls/women.
He wrestles all round the country and he puts in loads of commitment into it with all the training and travelling. He really enjoys the life and says he likes the attention, although he claims not to take it seriously. Apparently he wouldnt be doing his job properly if he wasnt making women take notice! He explained this is something that just goes with the turf which I do accept on one level, but it still bothers me and its got to the stage of causing me stress when he is away doing his wrestling. I dnt think he understands how much it bothers me.
I have not really explained to him how I feel as I dont want it to become a problem and this is something that he did long before he met me. I am very proud of him and really respect him for achieving something.
Any advice very gratefully received!
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Vic85 · 16/10/2009 14:49
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