make a very very long story short. MIL hates me and doesn't like my daughter. we haven't (my dh does) spoke to her in over a year. she sent bad letters about me to ds ped. and made my dd leave her home.(8 years old)
delimma. i am starting college in aug. MIL and FIL have alot of green. dh said they should pay for it because of other tax reason(trust don't alow us to qualify for gov. help) I don't want her money to pay for anything. i don't want anything to do with her. i don't want to fight with dh, but taking her money to pay for school goes against everything i believe in. kinda like saying this is my price. it may sound petty, but MIL has been the center of all dh and i problems since day one. she always thought i wanted money, as that is NOT who i am about. i am the kind of person that believes in GOD. not holly roll'n but i believe that greediness makes you a bad person. i am a independent person, i like to do things on my own, that way i feel great when it is done. I DID IT. dh hates that about me, should i stick like glue to what i believe or give in and save an arguement...as dh will just freak out. he doesn't understand, he is a hard worker, but never ever did without anything so do do without is just crazy to him.
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what should i do? leave it alone or stick w/ my morals?
haven · 08/06/2005 14:50
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