I am really in need of some advice. DH & me don't seem to be able to communicate in a meaningful way.
So tonight, I was having some problems with our youngest child, was upset about it. We were in the kitchen together, me explaining the situation whilst getting on with preparing the meal etc... I then turned round to realize he wasn't there anymore. He had gone somewhere else in the house to do 'something'. When I pointed out to him that I was finding that upsetting, the only answer I had was 'But I am listening to you.' Well not from the other side of the house, no you can't. It's hapening all the time. He just disppears in the middle of the conversation or start reading a magazine . But apparently, he is still listening.
Now, if he was still participating in the conversation, I could belive/understand. But he doesn't. As he never has any opinion on anything. I can't manage to make him say what he thinks about X or Y. His excuse is that if it's something you can't do anything about, then there is no point talking about it. He is not 'into children stuff' either so rarely has an opinion re parenting/school.
Oh and he never ever gets angry (except with the dcs...) so I don't know whether he agrees or diagrees with me, whether he think my ideas are OK or not or if he just gets along with what I propose for an eeasy life...
No matter of explaining seems to change his behaviour and I am getting really fed up.
Any advice??
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LostintheMiddleoftheSea · 29/09/2009 21:28
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