After too many sleep-deprived, psychotic rows, dh has said that he wants to leave.
I am shell-shocked. And know it's my fault, I have been suffering from anxiety and depression and taking medication which is helping... but it's harder when he is around. Have had a lovely week withthe kids, today- just tension and stress.
Dh is lovely and caring and does loads, but given up alcohol and feeling low - and a bitsnappy/distant. We have had loads of stress with the house buying and we are not sleeping together even - as ds (and often dd) is co-sleeping with me andthat's what I want really, though it was another thing we were going to sort when we moved... which has been delayed and delayed.
I just put all my energy into my kids, anddon't have any left for us I think. Maybe it would be easier but it breaks my heart thinking of daddy andthe kids being separate (cos they sure as hell aren;t going to livewith him).
I think I am just impossible to live with .
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Supposed to be buying a house but dh wants to leave. Help.
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Whatthehellisgoingon · 26/09/2009 19:28
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