Has threatened to kill her in the past but she is still with him. She says he has changed. Am I right to be concerned? At the moment I am just waiting to support her in case it blows up again - that's all I can do.
Weeelllll... I'm a bit yeahbutnobut - I would always be concerned about someone that would say something like that. However, my exp threatened the same to me years ago - I left anyway and he's never tried anything. That was 7 years ago.