Watching a program last night and it got me thinking as to how do me and dh maintain independance in our relationship. My answer to myself was We Don't.
When we go together we were both very independant in some way or other and that was part of who we both were. Over the years especially having kids has changed that. We do have problems in our marriage but we are determined to make it work, although at times theres nothing I would like bettr to scoop up the kids and walk straight into my own house away from him.
The program has got me thinking - if we used to be independant and we both liked it that way maybe that could be part of the problem weve become too dependant on each other if that makes sense. I believe being dependant is good in some respects and up to a certain point but theres got to be a fine line.
I would love to know how each of you maintain independance in your relationships?
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Serious Question: How Do You Maintain Independance In Your Relationships?
ScrewballMuppet · 05/06/2005 09:31
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