His ex texted him some abusive text about how its his fault that her friends no longer speak to her or something - he responded calmly explaining that it wasn't the case. I understand him sticking up for himself but when she texts at 1am - replying means she thinks its ok to disturb us at that time!!
THEN this is what annoyed me - she texted him, "ok sleep well dude" and instead of seeing that as the end of the convo and putting his phone down he replied telling her to sleep well. She's treated him like crap, left him heavily in debt cos he gave her the cash to pay the bills and she pocketed it ... and there he is wishing her a restful night's sleep at 1am while in bed with me??? I told him it upset me and he just said that if he didn't reply she'd kick off and give him hell! Do u think this is the only reason he replied? Is he likely to still have feelings for her? I've never known anybody text their EX nite nite or the equivalent!!!
Am I over-reacting?
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Texting his ex wife while lying in bed with me - would you be annoyed?
Martha1 · 16/09/2009 17:07
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