As a fairly regular poster some of you will know my story anyway but for these purposes - when exceptionally drunk last year i saw my (married) ex, who took me home ( he was sober) and i woke up with him next day. I now have a beautiful son - whom he threatened and has refused to acknowledge. Have been approached by csa repeatedly and they are not nice. I am also under pressure from relatives friends etc to name him. I am struggling and in danger have having benefits slashed but this man has a child already and i cant bear the thought of that little boy losing a father he DOES know. I cant stand his wife but she isnt evil and does not deserve this. I want to name him but still feel so responsible for their welfare that i dont really know how to look after mine. HELP.
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prettyfly1 · 04/06/2005 20:05
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