I have a friend I've known for years, with whom I've shared lots, partied with before we had children, been on holiday with, helped each other out with childcare... you get the picture.
Anyway, it's been a gradual thing, but this friendship seems to be disappearing. This year I've hardly seen her; whenever I email or text she takes ages to reply and then we never end up getting together. It was my birthday in April, and she suggested taking me out for a drink... it still hasn't happened.
I feel I've got pretty strong signals, that for her, the friendship is over, she's moved on. I do have other important friends in my life, but I can't help feeling sad about losing an old friend, plus insecure feelings of why... did she not really value our friendship?
I know I need to move on, and just enjoy the other friendships I have, but it is slightly complicated by the fact that DH is v good friends ( in fact best friends) with her DH. So she'll still be part of our life.
Any words of wisdom please on how to move on from this?
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How to deal with a friendship that seems to be over
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Travellerintime · 13/09/2009 10:54
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