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Bloody, bloody facebook

(10 Posts)
slimbo Sat 12-Sep-09 15:55:26

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APoisonTree Sat 12-Sep-09 15:59:29

If he was really that superficial, to leave you becuase you 'don't have enough time to look after yourself' then he is an asshat of the highest order and you are well rid.

potplant Sat 12-Sep-09 16:01:12

Damn facebook!

Nobody takes photos of themselves when they are in their scruffs being miserable. You are seeing a tiny snapshot of their life.

Stop comparing yourself and stop looking at their profiles.

He aint much of a catch if he cheats on his wife and can't be arsed seeing his own child. You are the lucky one.

slimbo Sat 12-Sep-09 16:22:58

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ninah Sat 12-Sep-09 16:27:20

left to concentrate on his exercise
heard it all now
stay off facebook

slimbo Sat 12-Sep-09 16:32:34

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ninah Sat 12-Sep-09 16:40:34

really sad for you slimbo, this is crap
oh he does sound self obsessed, honestly
try not to get eaten up by what is happening with ow (remembers self badgering ex's friends for info, thank goodness no facebook involved)
you will get your life back, you will
he will only carry on same cycle
try to concentrate on yourself and dc, I know it is easier said than done
and don't keep looking. facebook's all about pr, innit?

LuluMaman Sat 12-Sep-09 16:56:23

sounds like you are better off without a feckless, unfaithful, superficial, selfish knobber.

don't torture yourself

StirlingIsFedUpOfTheRain Sat 12-Sep-09 17:08:47

You could always have the last laugh - get yourself really fit, get your hair done differently... Anything to make YOU feel better about yourself and then tell him to take a running jump if he comes round sniffing again!

SqueezyCheese Sat 12-Sep-09 17:52:44

Oh what a wanker. Just remember though, the OW has probably put on the 'best' pics of herself so what you are seeing is pics that she really likes and look good in.

Try and stop looking though. If it has had the effect of making you determined to make yourself happy, then that is a good thing.

She, on the other hand, is just the next one in possibly a long list of women he will do this to. You could probably go as far as to feel pity for her because he will likely do the same to her.

Get your arse in gear and do things that make you look and feel good.....but....do it for you and not anyone else.

Lucky you, you have made a good escape it sounds like!

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