My mother has dementia and has become very ill recently. At the same time, it has come to light that my father has been lying about her condition and refusing appropriate help for her. Her family is becoming aware that her husband is mad. His family have always protected him to the nth degree, despite his abusing his children and his wife. My father has been lying to them as well, so that nobody has been able to help. We have effectively been watching as my father slowly kills my mother. I am afraid that if she dies under the current circumstances, there will be even greater family rifts than there already are. It's not pretty. I am effing furious that he is doing the same thing again that he did to me, and I don't know how to think.
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