I'm sorry to start a new thread but hope that someone can help me. This is really a contination of my earlier post re: dh's nocturnal wanking :-( (sorry I don't know how to do those link things to another topic)
Some of you might think I'm being stupid wanting to leave over something so trivial but tbh this has all been a bit of a wake up call for me. I don't think I'd realised just how miserable with everything I was and this is really the straw that broke the camels back for me :-( I never saw dh has controlling, I saw it as him taking a manly leading role really and accepted that has part of how he was/is but I'm starting to realise theres a lot more to it and don't think I can take much more.
He's never liked me going out or seeing friends but he's always said that it's because he worries for my safty if I'm out and would hate anything to happen to me. Now I'm not too sure this is the real reason as he does what he wants, when he wants, goes where he wants, without question or discussion so it's just me he worries for and not himself??
I don't have anywhere to go, theres not a hope in hell dh would leave if I asked him and have no idea where to turn or who to ask for help. please can someone give me a starting point before I go insane x
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
I want to leave but how, where can I go?
12 replies
MamaAlly · 09/09/2009 22:42
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.