Namechanger here,regular poster, with a genuine reason.
We've been dating for about 3 weeks and getting on well. I;d say he was a grower.
Anyway. Today he has told me that he had a bad split from his girlfriend (this is some years ago). Essentiall his story is that he hit her, in self defence.
And no, I don't mean just a slap .
Of course there is more to it than that but bottom line is - he attacked her and I can't get past that
Bottom line is I am very freaked out by this and my instincts are saying leave now.
My XP did some pretty nasty things to me but one thing I will say - he never hit me.
I'm very shocked. Not sure what I'm asking for here but I needed to get it down and get some perspective and just talk it out. PS please don't out me if you recognise who this is. Thanks.
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Shocking confession from new man..
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