This should probably be in the aibu section but anyway..moved in the new year to central europe cos (d?)h was offered dream job. i gave up my job (i was breadwinner and working PT following birth of ds) and followed him over, on understanding would study for MBA and learn language, no rush for job. dh frequently criticises my housekeeping 'skills' - not exactly martha stewart but i clean the house,cook dinner, do shopping, look after ds and study for mba. last night it kicked off because there was a small amount of dust on the bathroom ledge - culminating in being told i was an 'f-ing bitch' (in front of ds) and 'don't know what you do all day'. he also says i don't clean the floor properly and don't buy 'sensible' food (ie prepackaged jars). i would understand it if i did absolutely no housework but that's not the case. dh and his mum have more than a touch of ocd and i have always thought that was their issue (ie i'm not going to go the extra mile to accommodate their neuroses). 1) is it normal for husbands to comment/criticise about how you run the household? and 2) is this control freakery something to worry about or should i bite my tongue and get on with it..sorry for long post
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