I think my DP is up to something with a woman he works with. In the last few months he has gone from lazy fat waste of space to health freak, he's been re-vamping his wadrobe and generally improving his appearance. We very rarely sleep together as he is always too tired, I don't mind this as when we do it's always good. He has mentioned this woman a few times ( she is married) and they seem to be best buddies.
He goes to martial arts classes that run from 7.30 til 9.30 but sometimes doesn't get back til 11 and says they were just chatting after class. I took the children to the seaside for the day and he text and told me to stay over if I could get a B&B and have the next day to, was he just being nice or did he want the house to himself. I hate myself for doing it but I checked his phone and there were texts to and from here, nothing incriminating but very over friendly, calling her Hun and My Love the sort of thing he puts in texts to me. Am I over reacting or is he up to something?
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Do You think he is having an affair
Sarasue · 28/08/2009 17:42
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