DH being a wanker today. He gets stressed, can't sleep so he's tired, probably got a headache etc... so I say, go and have a lie down for an hour and you'll feel better. I have an off day, and I'm unreasonable, he begrudgingly allows me day at home. TBH I am often worried/stressed/frustrated or similar, and I often have a headache or feel a bit shit or tired, but I just have to get over it and get on with it. Are all blokes like this? So far as I can see, there are lots of them.
what i took from this post was that ss was hacked off at the double standards that often seem to operate in relationships. i hear you girl! in my case (just to carp for a bit, just having a moan) for example, i'm a SAHM most of the week and dh comes home to a (reasonably) tidy and clean(-ish) home, something cooked for tea, and ds fed and ready to play with daddy. but when i work on the weekends, i come home to carnage, stuff everywhere, ds has had random diet with no fruit and probably more chocolate than even dh fesses up to, all the days dishes just piled up and no thought given to a meal for the working woman.
apparently looking after ds is enough for him to do all day, but when its my turn...i have to be hausfrau, tis just expected.
sigh. so SS i'm with you on this one, they just don't get how much we put with, do they?
and yes, i am gradually trying to "house train" him. He does do a good job on the windows when i ask, bless