Briefly, my SIL is obsessed by cleaning.
I briefly visited her today and left after 20 minutes.
Her 4 children have been indoors all day - watching TV. They are all under 13. They have a garden and a patio.
Their mother is scared of the outside world.
The oldest has just started her period and she is having cramps. Her mother would not let her do anything today and gave me the impression that periods are an illness. She was indoors all day and I said that fresh air and walking in the garden would help.
My DH (we are married to brothers) will not say anything - despite being a medical Dr - and I have been warned off saying anything cos I will be "talked about" behind my back. The family refuse to see that there is a problem.
What can I do to help these poor children?
The mother is passing her phobia onto them.
They are already being laughed at by their peers.
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SIL does not let her children play outside - they are pale and miserable.
talking · 17/08/2009 20:43
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