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all your confessions here please

(195 Posts)
bumptobabies Thu 26-May-05 10:45:43

here goes i dont fancy dh anymore and weve only been married a year.

huggybear Thu 26-May-05 10:48:23

i dont fancy my dh either

Flum Thu 26-May-05 10:49:53

I fancy my dp and his mate.

Gwenick Thu 26-May-05 10:50:14

I never 'fancied' my DH..........

Toothache Thu 26-May-05 10:50:37

I went off my DH ages ago. We've only been together 5 yrs, married 18mths. It comes and goes though.... at the moment I s'pose he's all right.

Toothache Thu 26-May-05 10:51:03

I fancy my cousin (female).

huggybear Thu 26-May-05 10:52:43

sometimes i think of someone else when i have sex with dh

Toothache Thu 26-May-05 10:53:08

Who Huggybear???

huggybear Thu 26-May-05 10:53:57

that'd be telling....

Lizzylou Thu 26-May-05 10:54:37

Still fancy DH loads and loads, more than ever at the moment...must be my hormones!

Lizzylou Thu 26-May-05 10:58:22

And he asked my "Nickname" on MN last night cos he wondered what I'd been posting!!!

bumptobabies Thu 26-May-05 13:24:40

is she goodlooking toothache,and (im being nosey now)have you been with a woman before.

bumptobabies Thu 26-May-05 13:27:58

cme on hb spill the beans,dh is too hairy and hes too rough in the sack.i want someone with pash but in a loving and adventerous way.

Toothache Thu 26-May-05 13:33:33


CantSayWontSay Thu 26-May-05 13:34:38

I told dh that I hadn't missed any pills and had got pregnant while I was on the pill. I'd actually stopped taking it 3 months before because although we had decided we wouldn't have children because I didn't want any, I changed my mind. I am not proud that I lied to him but I am glad that I did it.

Lucycat Thu 26-May-05 13:36:20

Does he know now?

emmatmg Thu 26-May-05 13:38:08

woooooooow, that's a biggy Cantsaywontsay.

how do you keep it going?

I'd have guilt written all over my face

CantSayWontSay Thu 26-May-05 13:41:37

No, he doesn't know. He always wanted children but I didn't, and then when I raised the subject later on he said he was too old. So I took things into my own hands and in the end it was the right thing to do. In this case what he doesn't know won't hurt him and it's been too long now to own up out of the blue. I'm not proud and I'm not gloating over it.

emmatmg Thu 26-May-05 13:45:33

Oh, no I'm not getting at you.

I'd love another baby and lots of people have suggested I do the same thing (I'm not on the pill, we use comdoms so it would be easy for me to do it) but I really would look as guilty as sin.

TBH, I'm actually quite envious of you.

huggybear Thu 26-May-05 13:46:13

i cant say.... seriously...

CantSayWontSay Thu 26-May-05 13:48:19

I didn't think you were getting at me, emmatmg, I was just trying to explain myself so that I don't look like too much of a calculating bitch. I'm not, really, I just wasn't getting anywhere with trying to talk to him so I took matters into my own hands. I wouldn't recommend it over talking things through but it got me what we both wanted.

WontSayEither Thu 26-May-05 14:05:56

You're not the only one CantSayWontSay

CantSayWontSay Thu 26-May-05 14:08:45

It's a pretty fair bet that we're not the only ones either.

QueenEagle Thu 26-May-05 14:31:33

I chucked my pills down the loo and when I fell preg with dd said it must've been due to that stomach bug I had a few weeks previously...... don't mind admitting it now as it was with ar*ehole xdh.

Branster Thu 26-May-05 14:48:36

i bought a very expensive dressing gown and told DH my mum gave it to me as a present.

on the plus side I still fancy DH loads and we've been together for over 10 years.

On the minus side, i slept with somebody else whilst we were engaged . We were living apart at the time though and it wasn't a big deal. The other guy was engaged too (to somebody else obviously!). And it only happened once and yes it was great sex.

And I told DH I slept with less guys before him that i actually did.

So there you have it!

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