....and I really, really do.
This is becoming a huge issue in our relationship. We have been arguing about it for months but we're going round in circles.
Firstly I have to say I feel very blessed to have 3 lovely healthy dcs. But I want, I need to do it again. I hope you don't think I'm being selfish - I know we are so lucky and some people would give anything to have one child let alone 3. DH feels so complete with the way things are, and nothing I have said so far could change his mind.
I am a SAHM, we can easily afford another dc, I have found such purpose and fulfilment from being a mother, it's what I do well, there is nothing else I would rather be doing.
I am starting to resent my husband for denying me this. I don't see a way out - there is no compromise. DH is a very level-headed person who doesn't make decisions lightly so I don't hold out much hope for changing his mind, but I feel so angry with him that I have moved house several times and coped on my own a lot when he was away working to support his career, but he won't recognise my need for my "career".
He says I should be grateful for what we have and that we're getting older and there are too many risks. I'm 35 and he's 36. I replied that this issue isn't going to go away, but we'll be even older later.
I would love to hear from anyone who has been in a similar situation. Thanks.
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DH doesn't want another baby....
BroodyLady · 11/08/2009 23:36
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