I wouldn't, of course - who wants to sound this needy? - but I'm really hurt at being so comprehensively ignored by my so-called best friend, someone who was closer than my own sister.
Dear X,
I've no idea if you'd actually decided not to answer my last mail (in reply to yours suggesting we meet for a drink, and I said I'd love to because we hadn't seen each other in a while and I'd missed you) or are still getting round to it, but in case you hadn't noticed, it was in FEBRUARY.
When you were living abroad, we emailed every working day.
And then you moved back, just before I had DS. You said that getting to see me and to know DS was one of the things you were most looking forward to.
He was two last week. You last saw him when he was eight months old.
You've always been shte at keeping up with lots of people, but made the effort with me. Now you've stopped, and I feel pathetic for admitting it, but it hurts. You're basically saying that I'm no longer worthy of your time.
Just in case you're thinking that we're OK, and you'll mail one day in the distant future and I'll shrug and said "Oh, it's just X, that's what she's like" - we're not and I won't.
Have a nice life,
Frazzled
Do realise this sounds dramatic, but we shared family crises, health crises, depression, everything. And now I'm not worth a fcking email. It stings.
I do have friends and a life, BTW. I just really loved my friend. I miss her.
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frazzledgirl · 11/08/2009 11:08
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