not sure if this is ok to post this but i am at my wits end i have no ideas what to do for the best,
In brief my hubby told me he didnt want to be with me anymore jan 2008 things started to go wrong after 1st son was born, in January he told me is was having a relationship with BF, and he told me he wanted her, he wouldnt move out of the family home and i wasnt in the finanical situation to move and i still loved him although really angry and hurt over the next year we made attempts at putting it right but it always feel apart within a week because he lied and continued to see or speak to her.
I have lost my friends through his lies the best was I invited BF to sleep with us thats how they got together!
In January I asked him to move out before I had a break down, he did move in with her put 3 months later moved himself back in, he continued his relationship with her as always right under my nose, I said in June that enough was enough (certainly not in love with him now)and that i wanted to sell the house so i could start again and move closer to my parents so i could get a life
(he has never bathed, put to bed babysat our son I have not been out of the house on my own at all in 21months) The house in on the market, he has announced this week that he wants to sell the house and for us to try again, same area same people. He now says he can drop his partner and wants to be a family again, i am soo tired of all of this and dont have much fight left in me, do you think or have you been in a simualar situation is it possible that he can change or is it that reality has hit home as he is going to loose me and our son, he has told me to think about it but has made it clear that he will not give her up untill i give him a answer so i am trying to sort things out in my head and one minute he is saying he loves me and wants to make a go then goes off to see her!
any advise please!!
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I am so confused about cheating hubby have no idea how to handle it
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