i'm trying to break the pattern of being drawn to assholes. my usual type is the arrogant confident, vain very attractive, arseholes men.
have been on several dates and keep making ridiculous excuses
too skinny
too quiet
dont like the way they walk
dont like the way they chew
yet i will have found myself considering completely unsuitable men and overlooking serious faults such as commitment phobias, ones with ex's who still live with them... and ones who dont give 2 flying ducks about anyone but themselves.
so... anyone who's managed to successfully change their ways on this?
was it easy? did you just know... or did you initially find yourself making random excuses as to why the non-bastard nice guy was no good..... only to be shaken by good friends and told to get a grip and realise he was a good guy.
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breaking the cycle of being drawn to "bad uns"
ridingjoker · 07/08/2009 19:06
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