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Does my gym instructor really fancy me?

(10 Posts)
maltesers Tue 24-May-05 14:37:39

What do you think? I have been going to a class at the gym called Body Pump. The black male instructor knows i also am a fitness instructor and last week on the wednesday said 'hello sexy', then on Friday said ' hello sweet lady'. Do you think he is attracted of is he just a flirt/tart.? Quite fancy him, he is fit with lovely eyes.

motherinferior Tue 24-May-05 14:38:31

Suggest you nip off for a quick one and see what he says?

Thomcat Tue 24-May-05 14:38:58

Why wouldn't he fancy you, every chance, flirt back and see what happens, are you single????

maltesers Tue 24-May-05 14:41:30

well not exactly. but dp have gone off sex. Actually he was never really into it at all. Its driving me mad. Are all black men well end.....d ? ?

WhyMentionHisColour Tue 24-May-05 14:41:48


Just out of curiousity ?

FWIW, I would flirt back and see what happens from there. It may well be that he is just a natural flirt with everyone or he may well fancy the lycra shorts off you. There's only one way to find out.....

WhyMentionHisColour Tue 24-May-05 14:43:31

Ah, if you're in a relationship with someone else that puts a different spin on things. Leave well alone

'Are black men all well endowed.....?' That's like saying...'are all Scottish people mean with money?'. A racial stereotype.

mytwopenceworth Tue 24-May-05 16:09:33

pmsl at are all black men well endowed! Bless!! My dh would certainly tell you so........

Thomcat Tue 24-May-05 16:22:07

i must admit I wondered why you mentioned his colour, i thought it a little odd.
And if you're with a Dp then i'd leave well alone. finish it if you're unhappy and then you're free to do what you like with who you like.

lilibet Tue 24-May-05 16:29:29

Look but don't touch if you're in a relationship!

Thomcat Tue 24-May-05 16:32:19

WhyMentionHisColour - why did you change your name to that to make your point?

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