Hi I am new to this site and never really done this before. But I am seething and could do with letting off steam. I was with my ex for 20yrs and we have 2 kids. We split up almost 2 yrs ago (his idea) and normally have an okish friendship for the sake of the children. Last week he told me he has met someone else and that even though he was picking the children up for 2 weeks, he was planning to get friends to have them for a nite or 2 so he could see his new girlfriend. Selfish or wot - these two weeks are supposed to be a chance for them to spend qulaity time together. Today I also found out that he has told the children about his new girlfriend even though he has only just met her and told me he wasn't planning to tell them yet. My eight yr old is very upset and I have had a huge row with him. Not bothered about the girlfriend (she's welcome to him) but am bothered about his selfishness - am I over-reacting?????
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