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Try to keep it brief. Exh and I have been split a while. However due to massive rent arrears I am unable to take him off the tenancy of our HA property. Arrears run up by him I might add. I was a SAHM and wasn't earning.
I went away for the weekend and while I was away he stayed in the home and then took some Electrical items including a games console that was ds's birthday present . He says he paid for them so it is his right to do what he wants with them. He says ds does not even use them, not true, one was a dvd player and ds uses it all the time. Does not use the games console really but this was a thing that we bought to help him with his co-ordination, he has special needs but he has not shown any interest in it yet.
He says he has only pawned them and will get them back next week.
I am desperate to get him off the tenancy. Told him I will change the locks but he said he will just go to the HA and will take legal action if I do.
I need some legal and practical advice. He tells me he is too poor to keep living where he is living and is going to buy a tent and live in that on a local camp site. I think he would too. How bad is this going to make me look to his kids and family and friends?
The HA won't do anything btw because of the rent arrears.
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I really need help with this one.
sunfleurs · 28/07/2009 09:17
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