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HUGE sigh, just cleared out spare room for very best friends husband...

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sunburntats · 25/07/2009 20:31

They are having the most awful time.

Think they are about to split so i have sorted out the spare room.
TBH i am expecting him any moment.

Its SO SO sad.

Any one been in this position?

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TeaMonster · 25/07/2009 20:35

Yep - we have, thankfully no children involved, but it was hard. We had our best friend for about 3 months whilst he sorted out somewhere to live etc.

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sunburntats · 25/07/2009 20:36

ahhh, how did you cope? How did he cope? was it very stressful?

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TeaMonster · 25/07/2009 20:41

He coped with lots of tea from me and beer from DH. Tears, late nights and playstation.

He coped because he had to, she was a nutter.

We coped because we love him - he is our closest friend and guess what he is happily married now with a 14 month old and another on the way due in November.

Life throws you some shit but you deal with it.

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sunburntats · 25/07/2009 20:43

indeed!
Im not looking forward to it all thats all.

im dreading it.

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TeaMonster · 25/07/2009 20:52

Dont dread it - just use the time to enjoy everyones company or leave DH to it and read a good book!!

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sunburntats · 25/07/2009 20:55

Its so sad,
i dont know what to say to them both, i am useless.

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