Due to a dodgy stitching job after my first child (10 years ago now) I bleed easily after sex. Its normally not a problem but current partner is quite "wide" and I cut everytime we have sex. It doesn't hurt at the time, it's just sore for a few days afterwards.
Anyway, we had sex a few nights ago. He tried it on again a couple of nights later and I told him I was still a bit sore. He whinged a bit but didn't go on.
Last night he tried it on again after he knew full well I was tired and wasn't feeling well so I turned him down again. He went in a major mood, moaned that we'd had sex once in the past two weeks and that it was ridiculous. 4am this morning I'm woken up by him trying it on again. He knows full well I have insomnia so sleep is precious to me. I turned him down this morning, he wanked in the bed (not all the way) then got up in a mjor huff, went to work an hour early, slamming doors etc.
I'm really, really pissed off and it makes me all the more determined not to have sex.
Is he being a twat or is it me? I do not have a high sex drive, is that really such a crime?
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DP Pressuring me about sex
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OrangeCrushMama · 22/07/2009 07:35
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