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Junglists P is moving out

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junglist1 Mon 20-Jul-09 19:05:15

Hi anyone whos supported me on here and knows about my abusive P, he's agreed to move out and is taking steps towards finding somewhere (really, it's not a con). I've been on and on at him and told him if he doesn't leave, the police will be round to remove him. I have a text saved on my phone where he admits "hitting" me (I was shoved and had my face grabbed) and he said he doesn't like what he's become. I've stood over him while he's made the calls and even lent him money for a deposit. I also have other ammunition to use against him if he doesn't move. So see you twat,it's all downhill for you from here on in!

Tortington Mon 20-Jul-09 19:06:22

good for you

GypsyMoth Mon 20-Jul-09 19:13:42

just make sure he does go!!

junglist1 Mon 20-Jul-09 19:16:08

He has to can't mention the ammunition but he's shitting himself!

queenofdenial2009 Mon 20-Jul-09 21:42:21

Junglist, I read a lot of your posts on the long EA thread from the last month or two. I'm really pleased for you and hope it goes smoothly.

Might have to get some tips off you myself soon! Well done on getting him to go.

junglist1 Mon 20-Jul-09 21:45:54

Your time will come, TRUST ME

mrsboogie Mon 20-Jul-09 21:50:40

hurrah!! congratulations on getting rid of a tosser! and not a second too soon. You don't know me but I have read your threads and shouted "just get rid" at the screen a few times. Been there, took too long to do it myself. Once you are free you won't look back

Your new life starts here!

MilleniumHandNShrimp Mon 20-Jul-09 21:57:55

well done you

Keep safe

AnyFucker Tue 21-Jul-09 21:26:55

junglist, am glad to read this

now make sure he (and you) follow through with this

you may never get the money back that you have lent him, but no matter, it is worth it to get your freedom back

MrsMattie Tue 21-Jul-09 21:28:54

Good on you. Shit men need to get the boot.

Stay strong and make sure you get some support - friends, family etc.

AmazingBouncingFerret Tue 21-Jul-09 21:32:04

I dont know the back story but good for you!

junglist1 Tue 21-Jul-09 21:37:59

Thanks all, he's definetely going I've been building up to it and didn't tell him till I knew I meant it. One day he took my boys out and my 6 year old came in all happy until twat brought up that he was naughty hours ago which he'd told him off for already, I didn't like that it was like he wanted me to tell him off again. That was the final straw I'm not having mind games played with my kids. Thanks for all the support (and he can keep his money, it's a small price to pay to get rid).
grin smile and no sad

NicknameTaken Wed 22-Jul-09 10:56:40

Relieved for you, junglist.

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