My DH and I have had long standing problems with our marriage. Basically, we get out and in fact enjoy each others company. We both contribute equally to the parenting of our two DCs (both in their early teens). The main problem is that we don't find romantic and sexual fulfuilment with each other. We have been to counselling, but this hasn't really helped. We are now considering staying together and keeping what works between us, but finding the fulfiment that we need in other parts of our lives by taking partners outside of the marriage.
Has anyone successfully achieved this for any length of time? The alternative is obviously separation, but we both feel that we have enough going for us to try this alternative, if unusual solution to our problem.
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dadulike · 16/07/2009 07:41
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