I have been with my partner for seven years and, strange as it may seem, I've only realised this year that he's actually extremely controlling and bullying.
I've tried to split up with him a couple of times before, but he's persuaded me to try again. However, now that I'm seeing things clearly, I want it over and for him to move out.
So, how do I do it? I've spoken to Women's Aid and a lot of the very helpful threads here and the strong message is that the abuse escalates when you try and leave. Do I sit down one night and tell him or do the couples counselling he really wants and tell him there (I know it's not recommended for EA, but I'm quite scared of telling him)?
Also, how do I best deal with things for DD who is 4 years old.
Any advice, much appreciated!
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How do I get an emotionally abusive partner to leave?
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queenofdenial2009 · 14/07/2009 12:21
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