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Anyone come to the conclusion that sex is over rated

(6 Posts)
Sarasue Sun 12-Jul-09 14:33:20

I have decided that I am not all that into sex. When I was younger I thought it was the best thing ever and couldn't get enough but I now wonder if I was just trying too hard with blokes and trying to keep them by being a sex godess. Now days I really can't be bothered with all the acrobatics and acting like a porn star, id rather go to sleep. I would rather do it myself in 5 mins than have to get hot and sweaty for half an hour and still not hit the spot. Anyone else feel this way???

HecatesTwopenceworth Sun 12-Jul-09 15:20:35


I like affection. cuddles. kisses. feeling loved.

Sticking part of him into part of you - the act itself, without the emotional side - is <shrug> meh.

Not having affection is hard though. And not being wanted is hard.

commeuneimage Sun 12-Jul-09 15:37:31

to be honest if you think sex is overrated you are probably with the wrong man

NervousNutty Sun 12-Jul-09 15:42:28

I used to think it was, but now that I can't have it I think t is fabulous lol

macaronie Sun 12-Jul-09 18:44:28

I certainly agree that I would rather sort my own orgasms out rather than faf around for hours and then not make it. But I would really, really miss intercourse with someone I love.

mumblechum Sun 12-Jul-09 18:47:46

I think it's absolutely crucial to a loving relationship.

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