this is really difficult to write... I have been with my partner for a long time, we met when we were teenage students so smoking hash was part of our social scene, but fast forward nearly 12 years and he is still smoking it. I HATE this, but I can't seem to get through to him that it's not right. I stopped smoking it years ago as it gave me panic attacks, but he has carried on. He has calmed down somewhat and has even made a few attempts to stop, btu it never lasts. We have a baby son now and it really bothers me that even his shild hasn;t made him stop. He smokes most nights after coming home from work (not in the house though) and some days the first thign he does is go outside for a smoke. I just don't get why he needs to be stoned all the time. I have tried being understanding, shouting, crying, ranting, eveything to no avail. He keeps promising he is about to stop but it doesn;t happen... how do I deal with this? It's slowly killing my feelings for him - I'm just so hurt that event hough he knows I hate it he continues to do it!! any ideas on what I can do to get through to him??
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