It's a bit of a long story but my DH has been on a bit of a cutdown in terms of drinking lately, which has being going well.
However, on Thursday night he went to help his Dad with something, which to be honest I wasn't happy with because his Dad always seems to lead him off course and they inevitably go for a drink somewhere.
This doesn't normally bother me as I know what they are like by now but my DH went out for hours and didn't say where he would be. He did eventually sent a text me to say 'leave the back door open', which I took to mean he would be late.
He came back well after midnight and he didn't seem to be in a state so I thought nothing of it. However, when I woke up I happened to see his phone on the side and thought I'd look at it.
Now, at this point I admit I was wrong to check his texts but we are very open with each other and normally leave our phones lying around.
Alarms bells began to ring in my head straight away as there was a text from someone I had never heard of, a girl. It said something along the lines of
"In hotel room at conference in Portsmouth. Really bored. What are you up to?"
In fairness to my DH, he replied with some fairly bland things such as 'why not go to a bar' or something along those lines.
When my DH woke up I immediatly asked who she is and why she was texting him. He told me she was someone from work and was probably bored and may have sent it to a few people. He wasn't defensive about it, although he was a bit hungover.
In fact he offered to call her if I was concerned about it. I didn't of course but can't help worrrying that there is more to this than there seems.
The content was in no way sexual but it bothers me. I understand that he will have freinds at work, particularly as he is a popular guy.
Would any of you be worried if you found texts from a woman you don't know? I've sort of left this for the moment but can't help thinking I should find out more.
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Texts from an unknown 'colleague'. Should I worry?
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SueMunch · 06/07/2009 16:13
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