Ok, I really don't know what has happen DD1 is 3.8 years and DD2 is 2.3 years. I am married to my husband for the past 5 years and known him for 10 years and I really don't wish for sex.
The thing is I have never really had a great libido whereas my husband has. I have experimented with lots of things over the years so I'm no prude but to cut straight to the point if my husband and I never had sex again i really don;t think I wouldn't be upset. I am a very emotional person and my husband and I get on well. We always kiss and cuddle but for me that is fine. Every now and again I would love for us to just have foreplay and then leave it as that but off course he wants to have sex which I just can't be bothered with.
I know my husband watches porn which has taken me a time to come to terms with but now I let him watch it (and at times we have watched it together).
I feel sometimes I just have sex just so I can't start the counter again and tick it off the list which upsets me to think like that.
I have tried some libido enhancers which don't do anything and we have time alone on a regular basis so I really don't know what else to do?
sorry for the long winded question but I need your help!
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I don't really like sex but feel like I should do it for my husband
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