DH and I have not had a regular sex life for two thirds of our marriage.
I thought that this was all that need to be sorted we've talked about this quite well on three occasions decided what needed to do but then not actually followed through with actions/arrangements.
Yesterday I found flirty stuff on facebook with a single women from school - just jokey stuff, she had replied with little bits of flirty comments - these were in hi private inbox bit not on the public 'wall' section.
Last night he has said imediately he wants to go to relate to sort out sex life, he also said we were like friends, the rot has set in and we have drifted.
After seeing more this morning on facebook it has freaked me out I feel I want to cut n run before I get hurt anymore. I have controll issues which I have worked hard to alter and have done so.
He says he loves me, want to go. But I dont feel convince he's into 'us' as I am. He has a mysapce blog where he mentions our DS (3) but never me and the same on facebook. Although his status is married on both he only ever references his DS - I think this appears as if he is a parent and not a 'family man' or any indication that he is in a relationship (subconscious?)
I am scared, confused, angry tearful. Raging about facebook stuff.
ANY insights advice welome.
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AIBU and should we go to relate?
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namechange100 · 06/07/2009 09:04
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